Romance culture is the culture of the ancestors.

It’s the reason men didn’t need dating coaches back then.

So, what is romance culture?

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Romance culture is Europe’s traditional culture. It’s a culture that would start with the Romans and would continue even after the fall of Rome, this time through the leadership of the Roman Catholic Church and its Holy Roman Empire, a Christianized version of the old Roman Empire. Romance culture was essentially Christianized Roman culture where the Roman culture and its traditions, along with its Latin language, would become Christianized, adding a uniquely “romantic” twist to these.

Romance culture and dating

Today’s dating problems are essentially cultural problems since cultures comprise of customs used to help people constructively interact in a society. The counterculture, which would get its start in the late 20th century, would effectively remove traditional culture and its values from the popular conscience, rendering today’s society effectively cultureless.

Given the socialist underpinnings of its leaders, the counterculture acted as a sort of cultural revolution akin to that of communist China. The counterculture likewise tasked with eliminating traditional culture in order to give way to a modern socialist establishment.

Today, without culture and its customs, social interactions have understandably become very challenging. The good thing, though, is that, generally, so long as one person is operating by way of customs interaction become possible. In other words, so long as you’re operating by way of customs, you’ll be able to successfully interact with others even if they lack the same customs.

Romance culture can help you overcome today’s challenging social environment along with its difficult dating scene. 

Why men didn't need dating coaches

Men, particularly of the romantic era of the 19th century, were more romantic than they were today because they operated by way of values and ethics that are simply missing in today’s popular culture.

Fundamentally, we are a product of our ethics which in themselves derive from our values. Ethics are behaviors or actions that express, in action, what we value. Values are as seeds are to a plant or as food is to our body: we become our values. Consequently, if our values are shallow, overly rationalized or practically nonexistent, then their products – including our personality and our relationships – will be reflective of these. Certainly, they will be utterly unromantic. 

Consequently, to address relationships, we first have to address our values and ethics. Once those are corrected then all arising from these will automatically be corrected as well. It’s really no more complicated than that. 

The values and ethics you’ll learn from romance culture will be those that in turn result in a romantic character: in a personality that will be perceived by women as “romantic”. Rather than perceive yourself as “romantic” any changes you’ll instead perceive as a much-improved version of yourself, and that’s wherein lies the key: that it’s not about being romantic (about pretenses) than it is about becoming romantic – about self-transformation. The kind of transformation that addresses, not just your dating issues, but so much more. As the saying goes, men are not born, they’re made, and romance culture makes men.